Daughter # 1 sent these photos of her own daughter yesterday. "When they're quiet... its dangerous!"
Actually that's a principle I've learned sometimes applies to older children and friends. When we're all busy is when people fall away, grow apart, get divorced... I'm awfully busy just now, but this reminds me that maybe I need to occasionally pause in all this busy-ness and call to my friends and family. "I'm okay, is everything okay with you?"